I started the workshop by asking, “What keeps small churches and
churches led by bivocational pastors from being as Kingdom minded as they would
like to be?” We had a great discussion about the challenges that small
congregations face, but eventually we all agreed that if a small church had the
right focus and right plan, there was no reason at all for them to be as Kingdom
minded as they wanted to be.
However, we also determined finding the right focus and the right plan
was a challenge because most pastors in small churches are already so busy that
they just do not have the time to do more. We also concluded that a significant
number of pastors of those pastors were already on the edge of burn out.
Though all pastors are prone to burn out, bivocational pastors and
pastors from single staff churches typically face this threat with fewer
resources from their local church and denomination and sometimes with less
information on how to avoid burn out.
One way to help bivocational and single staff pastors avoid burn out is
to help them overcome the “second class syndrome” Many small church pastors
feel that they are “second class” pastors. Though there are many reasons for
this, common ones include: they lack education, they cannot boast about
numbers, or they cannot take part in denominational meetings because their
second job conflicts with those meetings. But they need to realize that bivocational
ministry is actually NORMAL for the church – Acts 18:1-4, 1 Thess. 2:9, 2
Thess. 3:7-9. They also need to realize that bivocational ministry is becoming
MORE COMMON in America. In fact, many younger pastors, especially church
planters, are embracing bivocational ministry for missional reasons instead of
economic ones.
A second way to help pastors avoid burn out is to help them learn the
art of delegation. Pastors and lay leaders need to understand that shared
leadership is NORMAL in the church – Acts 13:1-3, 2 Timothy 2:1-2. God NEVER
intended for the pastor to do all the ministry on his own! It is very unhealthy
for both the pastor and the church when the pastor does it all. Pastors and lay
leaders must be taught that there are multiple callings to ministry in a
healthy church. (See 1 Timothy 5:17.) There are people who are called to do
ministry who may not be called to be pastors and when we tap into those people,
then the leadership in small churches will leap forward. Some pastors do not
delegate because they either think the lay people will not do ministry or that
the lay people are not trained adequately to do ministry. Pastors must remember
that one of the primary duties of pastors is to train people in the local
church to do ministry. (See 2 Timothy
2:1-2).
A third way to help pastors avoid burn out is for them to have a
Sabbath on a regular basis. God set the example of working for six days and
then taking one day to rest. Genesis 2:2-3. Bivocational pastors and the
churches they serve, must understand that the pastor needs a day off each week
if they want him to be around long term. Though it can be hard to make time for
a day off, delegating small tasks to others will help relieve some of the
pressure from a bivocational pastor. However, if the pastor really wants to
avoid burn out, he must also be willing to delegate some high level ministry
duties to others. Since preaching and visitation are two of the most time
consuming aspects of ministry, bivocational pastors should train others to help
them with these two ministries. Lay people can and will help with these
ministries if trained adequately. If lay people resist learning how to assist
in these ministries, pastors should remind them that the Spirit will empower
them. Letting a lay person preach several times a year gives the pastor a much
needed break and develops the lay people’s spiritual lives. The same is true
for visitation.
While it may sound good to recruit a team to help the pastor lead, how
should pastors go about building this leadership team? While announcements from
the pulpit or in the church bulletin may stir up some interest, it is unlikely
to produce the leaders needed. Instead, pastors should personally recruit 2-3
people whom they train to assist them in ministry. Once the small group has
been selected, pastors will need to meet with them for a minimum of six weeks
(longer is better!) to train them in how to do pastoral care and preach a basic
sermon. Classroom training alone will not be sufficient. After 2-3 weeks of
learning in a classroom environment, pastors must take the students on some
visits. At first the students will observe, but then pastors must assign the
students some portion of the visit to lead and eventually must let the students
lead the entire visit with the pastor being only a silent observer. Likewise,
the students will need to preach a sample sermon or two to the other students. Students
will then need to preach a sermon to the home church. Students will then need
to preach a sermon at a nearby church. It is interesting how some students will
feel more comfortable preaching in the home church and others will feel more at
easy preaching to strangers. This is because we all have different
personalities, which is why part of our training must include various
situations. After each preaching experience, students will need feedback on how
to improve their sermons. After the initial training is complete, pastors
should look for ways to use these lay people REGULARLY for pulpit supply and
visitation. Nothing is more discouraging than to be trained for something and
then not get to use that training.
There are a variety of different types of resources available to help
pastors train leadership teams. Many denominations have training resources. Many
retired pastors are happy to assist, and they have far more time on their hands
than a bivocational pastors does. Dave Jacobs, a ministry coach and former
Vineyard pastor, has a great website called http://www.SmallChurchPastor.com. Dennis
Bickers, a key leader in the American Baptist Convention in Indiana, also has a
great website at http://www.bivocationalministries.com/.
Many of my readers are familiar with the book, Developing Leadership Teams in the
Bivocational Church, published by CrossBooks, a
division of Lifeway. This is a resource that I wrote specifically to help bivocational pastors train leadership teams. It is currently being used by over 3,500 churches across North America. It can be ordered from Amazon.com, CrossBooks.com, at any Lifeway Christian Bookstore, or directly from my own office. You can also find helpful articles at my website: www.terrydorsett.com. Whichever resource is used, the key is to make sure the students learn practical skills that they can actually use.
division of Lifeway. This is a resource that I wrote specifically to help bivocational pastors train leadership teams. It is currently being used by over 3,500 churches across North America. It can be ordered from Amazon.com, CrossBooks.com, at any Lifeway Christian Bookstore, or directly from my own office. You can also find helpful articles at my website: www.terrydorsett.com. Whichever resource is used, the key is to make sure the students learn practical skills that they can actually use.
I concluded my workshop by pointing out that burn out is a growing concern for all pastors, but especially single
staff and bivocational ones. Pastors can avoid burn out best by creating
leadership teams to assist them in the ministry. While any assistance from the
team is helpful, to gain maximum advantage, pastors need people to help them
with some of the visitation and preaching ministries. There are many resources
out there, we should use whichever ones work best in our context, but we must
make sure they are practical.
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