Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Nice Words, Mean Heart

Luke 11:42- 46 - But woe to you Pharisees! You give a tenth of mint, rue, and every kind of herb, and you bypass justice and love for God. These things you should have done without neglecting the others. Woe to you Pharisees! You love the front seat in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces. Woe to you! You are like unmarked graves; the people who walk over them don’t know it. One of the experts in the law answered Him, Teacher, when You say these things You insult us too. Then He said: Woe also to you experts in the law! You load people with burdens that are hard to carry, yet you yourselves don’t touch these burdens with one of your fingers.

We have all known Christians who used nice words to say mean things. I lived in the South for a few years and would often hear people say “Well, bless your heart.” At first, I thought people were speaking a blessing over whomever they were talking to. I eventually realized that phrase means “I think you are a complete idiot, but I am too nice to be honest with you.” Once I realized the real meaning of this phrase, it did not seem very nice at all.

Then there are those Christians who find a scripture, usually out of context, and use it as a weapon against people they disagree with. The often start the conversation with very sweet tones of voice and deceptive smile as they say the phrase, “the bible says” and then offer their out of context verse. Though their charm and use of Bible verses can be disarming, just try disagreeing with them. Suddenly the charm disappears and they make us feel like we are going against God Himself.  The fact that they have often ignored the full teaching of scripture on whatever the subject is does not matter to them.

Then there are the Christians who say they are “praying for you.” But the context of the conversation, the tone of their voice, or their body language indicates that they are actually judging us and are not likely to be praying for us at all. Thankfully, many are genuinely praying and since most of us can use all the prayer we can get, we are encouraged when someone says they are praying for us. But when Christians use the “I am praying for you” phrase as a nice way to tell us they think we are bad people, it takes away whatever encouragement we might have gained from genuine prayer.

I am not suggesting that Christians should stop trying to be nice. Our world has become a pretty harsh and rude place. We need more niceness in our society, not less. I am simply observing that sometimes we Christians like to hide behind nice words to say mean things. Most people can see right through this as thinly disguised arrogance. They know it is not an example of true spirituality. More importantly, God sees through it because He knows our hearts. He will hold us accountable for using His Word, prayer and Christian phrases in mean ways to hurt others.

Lord, help our kindness towards others be genuine and from the heart. Keep us from using nice words as a screen for being mean to those around us. Amen.

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This devotional is from the book “Heavenly Mundane” by Dr. Terry W. Dorsett. Dr. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at:





Monday, February 13, 2017

Church Rumors



Luke 5:30-32 - But the Pharisees and their scribes were complaining to His disciples, “Why do you eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?” Jesus replied to them, “The healthy don’t need a doctor, but the sick do. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”

A gentle older couple from a church across town stopped by my office one day. They wanted to make me aware of a terrible rumor going around about our church. The rumor was that our church allowed anyone to worship with us no matter their past background, or their current state of sinfulness. I did not know where that couple heard that rumor, but I was quite happy to confirm that the rumor was true! Our church had worked hard to let everyone in the community know that we accept all people just as they are. I rejoiced that day that the word had gotten out about our open door policy and that people are talking about it openly in our community. I can think of worse rumors floating around out there about churches.

Jesus encountered the same kind of rumors in His ministry. Luke 5:30-32 recounts one such story. In this passage, we see that Jesus reached out to people who did not fit the typical religious stereotype. Jesus reached out to those often spurned by the religious crowd. Many people did not understand, or like, the people Jesus reached.

Jesus knew His actions were misunderstood by many, yet He took them anyway. Jesus loved all kinds of people. His love compelled Him to reach out to anyone He came in contact with, including those that others may have considered untouchable. But do not be confused. Though Jesus took each person as they were, He loved them too much to leave them where they were. Jesus challenged people to consider their spiritual condition before a holy God and called them to repent of their former lifestyles and become His followers.

Our church felt the same way. We accepted people as they were but loved them too much to leave them that way. We did not judge, we just sowed the Word of God into their lives and watched as the Spirit of God transformed them. This is what all churches should be doing.

I thank God that our church was filled with messed up people who found a loving and accepting place where they could discover Christ and then be changed. It would be wonderful is this same rumor was whispered about churches all over our nation. When that begins to happen, we will see another great spiritual awakening sweep across our land.

Lord, help us to reach out to people who may not think they are good enough to come to church. Amen.

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This devotional is from the book “Heavenly Mundane” by Dr. Terry W. Dorsett. Dr. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at:





Sunday, February 12, 2017

The Difference Between Guilt and Conviction

John 16:7-11 - Nevertheless, I am telling you the truth. It is for your benefit that I go away, because if I don’t go away the Counselor will not come to you. If I go, I will send Him to you. When He comes, He will convict the world about sin, righteousness, and judgment: About sin, because they do not believe in Me; 10 about righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see Me; and about judgment, because the ruler of this world has been judged.

I can remember times in my life when I sat in church and felt overwhelmed by guilt. Other times I sensed the Spirit moving in me to remove the stain of sin from my heart. What is the difference between guilt and conviction? Since the Bible teaches certain standards, feeling bad about our sin is not always a bad thing. But some churches have taken the whole “hell, fire and brimstone” method a bit far. Such churches use guilt to get people to do the right thing. One problem with a guilt-based approach is that while it often works in the short term, it seldom works in the long term. On the rare occasion that guilt does change behavior over the long term, it robs people of the joy and happiness they should find in their faith. Another problem with a guilt-based approach is that young people with a more post-modern worldview simply refuse to be motivated by guilt. Therefore, they consider guilt-based churches irrelevant and simply ignore them. This leaves pastors and church leaders in an interesting situation. We need to help people learn the biblical principles for godly living, but need to do it in ways that are based on Holy Spirit conviction instead of the human emotion of guilt.

Perhaps the first step in the process is to help people learn the difference between Holy Spirit conviction, which is healthy for a vibrant spirituality, and guilt, which is normally unhealthy. It can be difficult to discern between guilt and conviction because they often both start out the same way, with some deficiency in our lives. Guilt reveals the problem but then makes people feel stupid or useless. Guilt makes people feel like they will never recover from their mistake. This causes people to become either depressed or rebellious, neither of which solves the problem. Holy Spirit conviction, on the other hand, reveals the deficiency but then uses that revelation as motivation for people to change because they really want to.

Another way of expressing the difference between guilt and conviction is in terms of the cross. If we are clinging to the cross, we find forgiveness and conviction is relieved. If we are running from the cross, guilt chases us until it captures us and tortures us.

We must remember that guilt is from Satan and produces bad results. Conviction is from the Holy Spirit and produces good results. Guilt leaves us with an understanding that we have committed an offense, but offers no hope of redemption. Guilt fills us with the despair of condemnation.

Conviction, on the other hand, also reveals an offense, a wrong or a sin, but conviction also reveals a way out of shame and condemnation by offering forgiveness and freedom in Jesus Christ. Once we have received forgiveness and changed our behavior then bad feelings go away and they are replaced with joy. When people experience Holy Spirit conviction, instead of mere human guilt, they have an inner desire to do what is right out of the joy of their salvation and not out of fear of punishment from God or the leaders of the church. As Christian leaders, we must encourage people to respond to Holy Spirit conviction and find the forgiveness and joy that results. However, we must never use emotional guilt to manipulate people’s actions.

Lord, help us respond humbly to genuine conviction from Your Spirit but never accept man-made guilt over things You have already forgiven. Amen.

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This devotional is from the book “Heavenly Mundane” by Dr. Terry W. Dorsett. Dr. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at:

Thursday, February 2, 2017

What Does It Mean to Be Pro-Life?

I attended my first pro-life rally when I was in the 8th grade. I went with our church youth group. At that time the pro-life movement was still in its infancy. Over the years the movement has grown, matured, and made significant progress in helping Americans think more deeply about the issue of life. Recently I asked my Facebook friends who consider themselves "pro-life," what that phrase meant to them. I thought I would share some of their responses with you.
Kathleen, a nurse from Torrington, Conn., says, “Life begins at conception. Just as I believe all who are living now have a God given right to life, so does that unborn child growing inside of its mom. God sees us as we are forming in our mother’s womb (Jer.1:5). He has a plan for each of us (Jer. 29:11). Only He can give or take life. No man has that right or power.”
Peter, an engineer from Manchester, Conn., reminds us that Jeremiah 1:5 teaches “life begins at conception and before birth. God already knows you and loves you before you even know that you are you.” He goes on to explain that Ephesians 2:10 teaches “all life is a part of God's plan, and we are his handiwork. We were designed to do the good works for Christ. Work that God prepared in advance for us to do. We have a destiny. ”
Michelle, a Vermonter currently living in Italy, keeps it short and simple by declaring “all life is created by God and for God and should be respected as such.”
Paul, a businessman from Spencer, Mass., says, “It means God’s children will have a chance to love JESUS” because they will not be aborted before they are born.
Joel, a pastor from Lyndon Center, Vt., says “It means that, since we're the Lord's creation and made in God's image, only he has the right to take life.”
Steve, a group insurance analyst from South Windsor, Conn., feels that being pro-life is “seeing the image of God stamped on his creation.”
Joe, owner of Faith and Family Films, from Randolph, Vt., says, “Every life is beautiful and life starts at conception. Who are we to play God and decide who lives or dies?”
Melanie, a special education assistant teacher from Worcester, Mass., says, “God does not make mistakes. Just because the baby wasn't planned in your eyes, does not mean it wasn't planned by God. Each life He creates is unique and special and perfect in his eyes.”
Jennifer, a mom from Springfield, Vt., simply comments that “God doesn't make mistakes.”
Sherrill, an executive assistant from Bennington, Vt., breaks it out this way, “Pro-life = ‪Pro: for, in favor of, positive, yes to. ‪Life: living, alive, quickened. ‪Pro-life: in favor of life.”
Sherrill goes on to explain, “For me personally, pro-life means I am for life. It means that I am for the preservation and protection of all human life, before birth, at birth, and at every stage of life.  Most of all, I am pro-eternal life. This means I am for sharing the hope of eternal life to whosoever will come to the Giver of all Life, through simple faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ.”
Brian, a retired corrections manager who now runs a growing faith-based non-profit, from Wolcott, Ct., offers this powerful personal testimony.
“My view towards life has been transformed since my salvation 20 years ago. For nearly 30 years I held to a pro-choice position in regards to abortion. I viewed the unborn child as a possession or property being transported by the mother. After my salvation, nearly overnight, my position was transformed. I realized individual life was fearfully and wonderfully made with a purpose and plan conceived before the dawn of time. I was able to see that the unborn child my wife carried was no less human, special or precious than the 13 and 11-year-old children we already had.
“I struggled with my position on capital punishment much longer. Because of my job in a prison, I was readily in support of the enforcement of legal consequences to take the life of one who also takes a life. But my new-found faith required me to study God's Word. I have come to believe that God's Word compels accountability for one’s actions and God allowed the processes of human law to even play a role in how Jesus would reconcile man with God. Therefore, I remain pro-capital punishment. It has always intrigued me that many who are willing to end an innocent life are opposed to ending a heinous and guilty one.”
Amy, a teacher from Gorham, Maine, says, “I do feel the care for widows, orphans and the ill is part of valuing life, although I do not believe it is a personal requirement alone, but the work of the church body and community to make sure that it happens and that every individual is valued. There is a pervasive problem in a society who throws away people due to the perception that quality of life is equated with value of life.”
Zak, the founder of “Entering the Public Square” says, “Being pro-life means more than just pro-birth to me. Being pro-life also includes things like opposing physician-assisted suicide, doing what we can to eradicate starvation, disease and deadly crime. For me, being pro-life is about creating a culture of life that encourages people to choose life in a variety of ways.”
Christians must continue to wrestle with this issue. We may all find different ways to address it, but address it we must. To do less is to fail to honor the gift of life the Lord gives us.

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Terry W.  Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at: