Showing posts with label grace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grace. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Matthew 18 Forgiveness - Guest Post by Daniel Demars

Most people who have been following the Lord for a reasonable amount of time recognize the importance practicing forgiveness and mercy. They grasp the concept that in light of both the holiness and mercy of God, holding onto grudges or desiring vengeance is neither Christ-like or healthy. They understand that harboring bitterness towards anyone is not evidence of spiritual regeneration. We know all of this. Yet I’ve spoken with people who confided that although they believe they’d forgiven, still find themselves upset about a situation to the point that it affects their lives. It’s entirely possible to make an intellectual decision to forgive, and to no longer wish for “karma” to fall on someone we are angry with, yet fail to cast the hurt brought on by the offense. 
Forgiveness is not always a one and done, quick release formula. The Lord gives us an image of a continuous approach. (Mat 18:21-22) The God who created us calls us to love people in response to His kindness, with reconciliation and humility. I can attest that at times I truly believed I had forgiven someone, only to find that the bitterness from a particular past situation was still on my heart. I found this hurt manifesting itself in other areas of my life. This greatly impeded my walk, emotional and spiritual well-being, and attitude towards life. When the Lord opened my eyes through His word it brought a new sense of liberation that changed the way I approach EVERYTHING. 
We must remember that forgiveness is NOT pretending it never happened. It is acknowledging real hurt before Holy God, and finding comfort His goodness. Knowing that He hates whatever wrong has been done to us, and that it has been paid for, along with every sin we have committed, based solely on the blood of Christ. Our immediate concern shouldn’t be gaining peace, but being obedient to God and bringing Him glory. We will come out the other side of the experience with Godly peace, but the process may be a refining process requiring sacrifice and submission. 
We might need to repent for assuming we are entitled to convenience in life, and instead embrace longsuffering and denial. We should reach out and make peace with whomever we feel has wronged us. (Mark 11:25) This may involve some uncomfortable conversations, which the Holy Spirit can adequately handle. We should lift the other party up in prayer and recognize that the Lord went to the cross for them with the same passion He has for us.
When we are actively involved in praying for someone, it is tremendously difficult to harbor anger towards them. We also identify areas in our own lives where we have fallen short in living a life of sacrifice. If we feel insulted, we need to remember God sees us as redeemed. If we feel we’ve been robbed, we need to remember God provides all our needs and ask for a generous spirit. If we feel betrayed, we should proclaim that God will never leave us, and ask for a spirit of commitment to others. This is yet another process of being conformed to the image of Christ.
And in it all, we must give glory to God. 




Daniel Demars lives in central Massachusetts. He is in the food distribution business and in his spare time enjoys driving for Uber where he says he is “cruising for cash and making friends along the way.”

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Freedom Isn't Free - Guest Post by Jim Fontaine


“You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. (Galatians 5: 13)

     On Independence Day, we always celebrate the freedom that came hundreds of years ago to this country. Freedom was bought through the blood and sacrifices of many…and we owe those brave men and women a great debt of thanks. It is a reminder that freedom is not free, either for the one who buys it or the one who receives it.

     The same is true of the freedom Jesus bought for us 2000 years ago on Mount Calvary. The freedom Christians enjoy came at a very great cost since Jesus gave His life to make us free from sin. Through accepting the Name of Jesus in faith and receiving what He did on the Cross for our salvation, we have eternal life, full and free. Our behavior, therefore, should always reflect who we are, not who we were. Our behavior should reflect how grateful we are to God for His precious and undeserved gift.

     But, there are many who abuse their freedom as Christians, claiming that the freedom they have in Christ now allows them to live any way they want, even if that means living in sin, living the same way as they did before they were saved. They say things like, “I believe in Jesus! And since I do, I can live however I want because He’ll forgive me of all my sins!” The problem with that kind of thinking is that Jesus calls us to be more like Him (Romans 8: 29); to become holy as He is holy (1 Peter 1: 16); to put on the new self, which has been created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (Ephesians 4: 24).

     How can we say we are Christ-like when we are living in sin? Is that the kind of freedom Jesus has called us to? Can Christians sin as much as they want now that their sins are all covered by the blood of Jesus? The answer is an emphatic NO! Yes, we are called to be free! But, we are also called to be more Christ-like every day. We are not to live in sin anymore. Freedom in Christ is NOT the freedom to do what we want when we want; it is the freedom to do what God wants and to please Him because we love Him.

     After the evacuation of troops from Richmond, Virginia on April 4, 1865, President Abraham Lincoln walked the streets of the city with his son Tad. Former slaves gathered to meet the President, thanking the man who had set them free. President Lincoln stopped at one point to address former slaves. In his book, Life of Abraham Lincoln, author Clifton Nichols wrote down the President’s challenge:

My poor friends, you are free – as free as air. You can cast off the name of slave and trample upon it; it will come to you no more. Liberty is your birthright. God gave it to you as he gave it to others, and it is a sin that you have been deprived of it for so many years. But you must try to deserve this priceless boon. Let the world see that you merit it, and are able to maintain it by your good works. Don’t let your joy carry you into excesses; learn the laws, and obey them. Obey God’s commandments, and thank him for giving you liberty, for to him you owe all things.” [1]

Much of what Lincoln said to former slaves, Paul said to the Galatians and to us. If you have professed faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation, you ARE free! God has given it to you as a precious, undeserved gift of His grace. Freedom is your Christian birthright!

     But do not use or abuse your freedom in Christ by continuing to live in sin. Do not dishonor the Savior who died for your sins by thinking that it is OK to sin. Freedom in Christ is NOT freedom to sin. Instead, show that you are free in Christ by living the way God wants us to live, in obedience to His commands; by loving and serving one another in the body of Christ; by loving and serving our neighbors as an outflow of the love of God that is in our hearts. Contrary to what the world would tell us, freedom is not the ability to do what you want, when you want to do it. Freedom in Christ is a gift from God…and there are boundaries to that freedom. Let us always glorify the Savior who freed us by living lives that truly honor the sacrifice He made on our behalf.


[1] Clifton Melvin Nichols, Life of Abraham Lincoln (Springfield, OH: Mast, Crowell & Kirkpatrick, 1896), page 232.


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Jim Fontaine became the pastor of Friendship Baptist Church in Brimfield, MA in July 2016 after completing a 13-year pastorate at Burncoat Baptist Church in Worcester, MA. Jim has been married to his wife, Paula, for 24 years and has four children.

Saturday, February 25, 2017

Enjoy the Frustrations of Living

Psalm 30:1-5 - I will exalt You, Lord, because You have lifted me up and have not allowed my enemies to triumph over me. Lord my God, I cried to You for help, and You healed me. Lord, You brought me up from Sheol; You spared me from among those going down to the Pit. Sing to Yahweh, you His faithful ones, and praise His holy name. For His anger lasts only a moment, but His favor, a lifetime. Weeping may spend the night, but there is joy in the morning.



I like things all planned out. But sometimes, no matter how much we plan, things happen that are beyond our control. I recall once planning a special service to license a pastor to the ministry. We had invited a number of special guests to be part of the service. Everyone was excited about the special service. The church we were meeting in did to have their own building, they rented space on a college campus. When we arrived to set up things for the service, the building manager informed us that there had been a last minute change in plans. They needed the large room we normally use to accommodate someone in the administration. They had reassigned us to a much room across the sprawling campus complex. With only minutes until the service began, we had to move all our stuff to a different building and quickly set it up. There was little time to inform members of the congregation where we relocated to. The alternative meeting location was on the third floor of a building and down several maze-like hallways. It was hard to find and even harder to explain to our special guests who had not been on campus before. It seemed like the service was going to be a disaster. Our leadership team started calling and texting members of the congregation and special guests to tell them how to find the new location. It was a very stressful situation and our plans for a special service felt like they were rapidly evaporating.

Eventually, we got everything set up and began the service only ten minutes behind schedule. People kept trickling in as they discovered where we were. To our surprise, we ended up having a record attendance that morning! The service itself went great. As we prayed over the pastor to license him, all the frustration seemed to melt away and a sense of real joy filled the room. In the end, God got the glory, and His Word was proclaimed during the service.

Life is like that. Unexpected things happen that raise stress levels. God works through them and blesses the situation anyway. Then another challenge happens, and God works through that too. It happens again and again, but each time God works through the situation and brings glory to His name. The frustrations of life are many, but so are the joys when we keep our focus on Him. The joy of knowing and serving Christ make the frustrations of life worth it. If we just keep exalting the Lord, even in the midst of chaos and sadness, joy eventually comes.

Lord, give us joy in the midst of the struggles of life. Amen.

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This devotional is from the book “Heavenly Mundane” by Dr. Terry W. Dorsett. Dr. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at:


Sunday, February 12, 2017

The Difference Between Guilt and Conviction

John 16:7-11 - Nevertheless, I am telling you the truth. It is for your benefit that I go away, because if I don’t go away the Counselor will not come to you. If I go, I will send Him to you. When He comes, He will convict the world about sin, righteousness, and judgment: About sin, because they do not believe in Me; 10 about righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see Me; and about judgment, because the ruler of this world has been judged.

I can remember times in my life when I sat in church and felt overwhelmed by guilt. Other times I sensed the Spirit moving in me to remove the stain of sin from my heart. What is the difference between guilt and conviction? Since the Bible teaches certain standards, feeling bad about our sin is not always a bad thing. But some churches have taken the whole “hell, fire and brimstone” method a bit far. Such churches use guilt to get people to do the right thing. One problem with a guilt-based approach is that while it often works in the short term, it seldom works in the long term. On the rare occasion that guilt does change behavior over the long term, it robs people of the joy and happiness they should find in their faith. Another problem with a guilt-based approach is that young people with a more post-modern worldview simply refuse to be motivated by guilt. Therefore, they consider guilt-based churches irrelevant and simply ignore them. This leaves pastors and church leaders in an interesting situation. We need to help people learn the biblical principles for godly living, but need to do it in ways that are based on Holy Spirit conviction instead of the human emotion of guilt.

Perhaps the first step in the process is to help people learn the difference between Holy Spirit conviction, which is healthy for a vibrant spirituality, and guilt, which is normally unhealthy. It can be difficult to discern between guilt and conviction because they often both start out the same way, with some deficiency in our lives. Guilt reveals the problem but then makes people feel stupid or useless. Guilt makes people feel like they will never recover from their mistake. This causes people to become either depressed or rebellious, neither of which solves the problem. Holy Spirit conviction, on the other hand, reveals the deficiency but then uses that revelation as motivation for people to change because they really want to.

Another way of expressing the difference between guilt and conviction is in terms of the cross. If we are clinging to the cross, we find forgiveness and conviction is relieved. If we are running from the cross, guilt chases us until it captures us and tortures us.

We must remember that guilt is from Satan and produces bad results. Conviction is from the Holy Spirit and produces good results. Guilt leaves us with an understanding that we have committed an offense, but offers no hope of redemption. Guilt fills us with the despair of condemnation.

Conviction, on the other hand, also reveals an offense, a wrong or a sin, but conviction also reveals a way out of shame and condemnation by offering forgiveness and freedom in Jesus Christ. Once we have received forgiveness and changed our behavior then bad feelings go away and they are replaced with joy. When people experience Holy Spirit conviction, instead of mere human guilt, they have an inner desire to do what is right out of the joy of their salvation and not out of fear of punishment from God or the leaders of the church. As Christian leaders, we must encourage people to respond to Holy Spirit conviction and find the forgiveness and joy that results. However, we must never use emotional guilt to manipulate people’s actions.

Lord, help us respond humbly to genuine conviction from Your Spirit but never accept man-made guilt over things You have already forgiven. Amen.

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This devotional is from the book “Heavenly Mundane” by Dr. Terry W. Dorsett. Dr. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He writes extensively and you can find all of his books at:

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Broken Beyond Healing

Proverbs 29:1 - He who is often reproved, yet stiffens his neck, will suddenly be broken beyond healing.

The mother sat in my office with her head hung low. I could barely hear her voice as she shared her story with me. Her son, who had always had a strong rebellious streak, had finally done something bad enough to land him in jail. As a result, he had lost the only good job he had ever had. He had lost custody of his daughter, the one bright spot in his life. His girlfriend was refusing to answer his calls or cooperate with his lawyer to get him out of jail. The mother sobbed "His whole life is ruined and there is no way to fix it."

Though I wish I could have offered some great words of advice that would make all that mother's pain go away, there was little I could do but listen and pray. I had known her son for years. More than once I had deep conversations with him about his life and where it was headed. He was not interested in what some "Bible thumping preacher" had to say. He was not interested in what his mother had to say. He was not interested in what teachers at school had to say. He was going to do what he wanted, when he wanted and how he wanted. And that attitude landed him in jail, jobless, alone and broken.

Several years have passed since that conversation. To the best of my knowledge, he is back in jail again. Still broken, still stubborn, still rebelling against all authority. No amount of rehabilitation, counseling or punitive action seem to impact him. From a human perspective, he is broken beyond healing.

The only thing that can turn his life around would be for him to humble himself before almighty God, repent of his sins and place all his hope on Christ alone. But so far, he does not seem interested in that road to healing. So he struggles on, angry with his situation, blaming others, hating those who he perceives as the cause of his problem. Broken beyond healing.

Though this young man's situation is probably more extreme than most, he represents so many in our culture who are under the sway of the spirit of rebellion. That spirit of rebellion has caused them so much pain but they do not seem capable of turning loose of it. Until they do, they will remain broken beyond healing.

Lord, reveal Yourself in a powerful way to those under the sway of a spirit of rebellion. Bind that spirit and replace it with the overwhelming presence of Your Holy Spirit. Show them healing that only comes in the name of Christ through faith and repentance. Amen.

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Dr. Terry W. Dorsett has been a pastor, church planter, denominational leader and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. He has written a book about the spirit of offense that prevails in our current society. You can find all of his books at:

Friday, March 25, 2016

Good Friday Meditation for 2016

Good Friday. What a name for a day on which something so terrible as the death of Christ happened. To think that an innocent man was brutally murdered in front of an approving crowd is almost unimaginable, except that it wasn't just a myth or someone's vivid imagination, it actually happened.

Good Friday shows the depths of the depravity of man. It shows how low people will sink to protect their political aspirations, their theological assumptions, or their place in the world. It shows how even good people will deny the truth or hide in the shadows while great horror happens around them, which begs the question, are they actually good? The answer of course is that there is none good, no not even one (Romans 3:10).

Good Friday also shows the amazing love of God. That He would endure such agony for us is something hard to fathom. None of us deserve it. None of us can truly appreciate it. None of us would even understand it without the gift of grace. Yet, while we were yet sinners, God demonstrated His love for us by allowing Jesus to die for us (Romans 5:8).

What makes this day good is not the agony of Jesus, but the love He had for those He was in agony for. Because of what happened on this day, every good and perfect gift can now come to us from the Lord who does not change like the ever shifting court of public opinion (James 1:17). He has declared that He loves us. And that declaration stands. No matter what. This is a hard truth to accept, and yet we must if we are to have any hope for a joyful life on earth and a more joyous one on the other side of death.

Let us remember Good Friday on days in which we feel unloved, or unlovable. Let us remember that He has decided that He loves us and nothing can change that. Nothing. Period. We can resist that love (which does not change the fact that He still loves us), or we can embrace that love (which gives us great peace and comfort). I chose to embrace it, and that makes this day good.



Dr. Terry W. Dorsett is an author and Christian leader in New England. He is a happy husband, proud father, adoring grandfather and thankful cancer survivor. You can find his books at:
http://www.amazon.com/Dr.-Terry-W.-Dorsett/e/B00405U4NY/

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Attitudes about Church - Guest Post by Logan Loveday

I recall a conversation with a friend that was sparked by a blog article I shared. The article discussed how many churches today try relate to millennials and young adults by giving them what they want; not what they need. The author emphasized the need for churches to be authentic and biblical rather than trendy or “current” just to get a crowd. While the article did address the need to reach people, the author argued that churches should not compromise on the need for spiritual maturity.

In my conversation with this friend, I could tell that he agreed with the premise of the article, but focused on all the hypocrisy that he had experienced. He agreed that churches should teach truth and transformation rather than create an atmosphere of moralistic therapeutic deism. My friend obviously spoke from past experiences. In the past my friend experienced a church culture that taught dogmatic principles and ritual lifestyles. When churches began to go in the opposite direction of this “church culture” some embraced being different by means of compromise. Some churches would often surrender theology and biblical truth in order to reach the culture. My friend argued that neither of these approaches are correct and middle ground needs to be found. He believed that something needed to be done, however, his attitude about those incorrect churches was very negative.

Because of the hypocrisy on both sides of the church spectrum, this friend gave up on church altogether and became cynical. He felt that because he had been done wrong he needed to be critical of the Church as a whole. Just because he experienced several bad churches or “church cultures” he assumed no one was “doing it right.” The pain and hurt of incorrect beliefs and methods soon turned to anger and bitterness.

While I agreed with my friend’s thought process, I have a totally different attitude towards church.  See, I grew up with this friend and I experienced some of the same hypocritical teachings and lifestyles, but I have come to a completely different conclusion. My friend’s outlook toward church derives from his poor experiences which result in bitterness and cynicism. Because of the way he was treated or the incorrect manner in which things were done or said, he distanced himself from church. I admit, there were times, when I was younger, in which I struggled with church but by the grace of God I was brought to different conclusion.

Yes, some churches do and say the wrong things. I have had this conversation with many young adults. Many say they were hurt or turned off from church because of their bad experiences. While many teenagers and young adults have cynical attitudes towards those churches for believing, saying or doing the “wrong things,” I was taught to take a different approach towards church. I believe that instead of bashing the Church as a whole or criticizing those “hypocrites,” it is my responsibility as a follower of Christ to be a part of the change.

Many people love to criticize others when mistakes are made or when bad beliefs or methods are expressed. Few people make the choice to help repair or correct the situation. Just like in the comparison of my friend and I, the right attitude must be taken if we want to see positive changes. Bitterness and anger towards someone or something typically results in only more problems. If someone believes that something or someone is wrong, they should help be a part of the change. First, this involves having the right attitude about the situation. If we constantly criticize people or groups when they are wrong, they will probably never want to change. Second, it may require un-teaching an incorrect behavior or belief. Many times people do things wrong because of poor examples or because they simply do not know the truth. Third, changing a situation like this always requires the teaching of correct truth and methodology.

If we believe the goal of the Church is to make disciples, then we need to teach others in word and deed. We cannot fix problems in the Church simply by pulling away and criticizing those who do it wrong. If our attitudes are focused on being more like Christ, then we must help others see the truth and be a part of positive and constructive change. Whenever we are wronged by the Church we can leave and become critical or we can stay and be a part of healthy growth. Remember, all believers are a part of the body of Christ. When one body part does something wrong another body part should not cut itself off assuming that is the solution to the problem. If disagreements arise have the right attitude and help be a part of healthy church growth. 
               



Rev. Loveday is the pastor of Faith Christian Fellowship, which meets on the University of Hartford campus in West Hartford, CT. He also has a blog called All for Christ, where the above post previously appeared. This post is re-posted by permission.

Monday, January 12, 2015

Emotional Orphans

I recently listened to a reporter on the nightly news interview a mother with a severely handicapped child. She said her greatest struggle was that she often felt alone. Very few people could understand her unique situation and that frequently left her isolated emotionally and physically. Over the years of my ministry, I have met many people who faced challenging life circumstances. That sense of loneliness seems to be a common experience.

Though we all have different challenges to endure, we can all acknowledge that life is sometimes hard. In those moments, we may feel all alone in the world. One person expressed that feeling this way; she said “I feel like emotional orphan without a family to love me.” Many of us have felt that way at some point or another. Our loneliness and isolation can become like shackles that hold us back and rob us of the peace and comfort that we need to thrive. In those moments it is good to remember what Jesus said in John 14:18 "I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you." Jesus also said “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid” (John 14:27).

Troubles and difficulties will always be part of life. Knowing that we are not alone, that we are not orphans without a Heavenly Father to care of us, brings comfort in the midst of trials. Having a strong connection with Jesus gives us peace in the midst of pain and lifts our hearts when we are troubled.

Those of us who know Jesus have experienced this comfort and peace many times but still need to be reminded of them in our moments of travail. Those who do not know Jesus often long for the peace He offers though they may not be able to express that desire in theological words. If you do not know Jesus, turn to Him today. Open your heart and mind to His love and commit to follow Him for the rest of your life. Receiving Jesus does not mean that all our problems will go away, but it does mean that we will no longer be spiritual orphans in this world.

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Terry Dorsett has been a church planter and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. Find all of his books at:
http://www.amazon.com/Dr.-Terry-W.-Dorsett/e/B00405U4NY

Monday, December 29, 2014

Has American Christianity Become the Corinthian Church?

Christianity in America has become very self-centered. It seems that Christians are far more interested in what the church can do for them than in how they can serve the Lord through the church. Though this may sound like a new phenomena, the church of Corinth struggled with the same issue. The Apostle Paul wrote an entire letter to the church in Corinth trying to correct these issues. Consider his words from 1 Corinthians 16:13-16:
Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love. You know that the household of Stephanas were the first converts in Achaia, and they have devoted themselves to the service of the Lord’s people. I urge you, brothers and sisters, to submit to such people and to everyone who joins in the work and labors at it.

Verse 13 - Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.
          As the Apostle Paul often did in his letters, he summed up the main point of the entire epistle into one verse near the end of the letter, and this is that summary verse. In 1 Corinthians, Paul dealt with various abuses of Christian liberty the Corinthians had taken. Some examples include: sexual immorality, taking communion improperly, using spiritual gifts in incorrect ways, and doing good deeds without love.  In each of the issues that Paul deals with throughout Corinthians, his emphasis is on living in such a way that our Christian conduct builds up the local church instead of ourselves. This was foreign to the self-centered way that Corinthians lived. To be a Corinthian was to be a self-centered wild party animal. To be honest, it is fairly foreign to the way most American Christians live as well.
          Paul reminds the Corinthians to always be on their guard against taking God’s grace for granted. This is good advice for us too. Though there are many things that we COULD do as believers, that does not mean we SHOULD do them. We must always guard our hearts from being self-centered and egotistical in our faith. Despite all our fancy talk about loving the Lord, most of our efforts in our personal lives, and in our churches, revolve around meeting our own needs, not building up others or glorifying the Lord. Just look at the list of programs most churches offer, most of them are to benefit the members, not to serve the community. American Christians do not love the idea of sacrifice, or doing without, so that others can have what they need to live. Living in such a way requires a stronger, firmer faith, than most of us have.
          This is why Paul challenges us to stand firm in our faith. If our faith is not strong, it is impossible for us to live the Christian life God wants us to live. This is a common theme found throughout the scripture. If we do not stand firm in our faith, we will not stand at all (Isaiah 7:9). We cannot have an on again off again faith that wavers back and forth with every change of situation. Without faith it is impossible to please God (Hebrews 11:6). If we try to base our faith only on good works, we never really feel like we have pleased the Lord. We must base our faith on Christ alone for both eternal salvation and daily living. With people, such faith is impossible, but with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26). God will help us do this, but we must learn to trust Him.
          Learning to trust God completely takes great courage, especially for independent minded Americans who do not like to rely on others for help. The phrase “be couragous” is the Greek word andrizomai  (ἀνδρίζεσθαι), which literaly means “to bear oneself manfully, or to be manly in bearing and action.” That is why in other versions of the Bible, the phrase “be courageous” is written as “act like men,” or “be manly,” which is actually closer to the original language. We need manly courage to live for Christ.
          Because most of us prefer to trust what we can see, it takes a lot of courage to trust God, who He is unseen by our human eyes. It takes a lot of courage to serve in the church because there is always someone who will complain about how we did things. It takes a lot of courage to speak about our faith outside of church, especially in a culture that is increasingly anti-Christian. But if we follow in the footsteps of Jesus, who had the courage to go to the cross, He will give us the strength to be courageous both in and out of church.
          For those of us who doubt if we are up to the task, notice the last phrase, “be strong.” Paul uses a very uncommon Greek word here, it literally means, be strengthened, which implies that the source of strength was not in ourselves but in something outside of us. The source of our strength is the Holy Spirit. Will we allow Him to work in our lives?
          Ultimately, our manhood, our courage, though weak in the human sense, once empowered by divine strength, will brace us for all we are called to do for the Lord. This is also a common theme in scripture. We are more than conquerors through Him who loved us (Romans 8:38). Greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). The great challenge is to make sure that as the Lord empowers us to do great things for Him, we must not start thinking more highly of ourselves than we should. /Our entire life must be encapsulated by the love of Christ.

Verse 14 - Do everything in love.
          The idea of loving others was so important that Paul devoted a whole chapter in this letter to the concept of love (chapter 13). Far too often Christians say, do, or believe the right things, but fail to do them in love, or for the right reasons, and therefore miss the point of what God was trying to have us do. When we do the right things for the wrong reasons, or without love, we miss the blessing that God wants us to have in our service to Him. Perhaps this is why we no longer enjoy serving in church. If our service to God no longer feels like a blessing, it might be time to do a heart check to make sure we are serving in love. When we do the right things for the wrong reasons, or without love, our actions lose much of their effectiveness because the power of the Holy Spirit is no longer in our actions. Wow, just dwell on that idea for a moment. Note that being strong and manly is not the opposite of being loving. They should work in partnership with each other, not in opposition to each other.

Verses 15-16 - You know that the household of Stephanas . . . devoted themselves to the service of the Lord’s people. I urge you, brothers and sisters to submit to such people ...
          This verse introduces us to Stephanas, whom some scholars suggest was the Philippian jailer who came to faith in Christ in Acts 16. Others suggest that he was a wealthy business man from Athens whom Paul had led to faith while there and who later moved to Corinth. We may never know exactly who Stephanas was, but we do know that he was devoted to serving others. Paul commends him for this. This fits the theme of the letter because the Corinthians were having trouble serving others. Paul tells them to submit to people like Stephanas, who liked to serve.
          Submit means to line up in order of authority. Though all are equal in the church before God, God has chosen to put some people in authority so that the church can function well. God chooses leaders who like to serve others, which is not always what the church chooses. If we desire to be leaders in the church, whether we ever hold an office or not, we must be known for serving others and for our willingness to submit to those who serve others. How can we be known for that?
          Verse 16 tells us to join in with others who labor for the Lord. Though the modern generation is not much on joining groups, there is something powerful about joining up. If we are not members of a church, we should do whatever we have to to join a church.
          Verses 1-2 of this chapter remind us of the importance of giving to the church financially.
          Though none of us like it when churches talk about money, how do we expect the church to do what it does if no one gives?  If everyone gave what they should, we would not have to continually take up special collections. So if we do not like special offerings, let’s give what we should to the main offering and there will be enough to meet all the needs.
          Verses 10-11 remind us to support the pastor and the missionaries in their efforts to share the Gospel with others. Sometimes a door for ministry opens and we should do whatever we can to help those who feel called to go through it.
          Finally, verses 19-20 remind us to cooperate with other churches. This is why every church should be part of a group of churches instead of being a lone ranger church. We can do far more together than we can on our own.

Conclusion:
In 1 Corinthians 16, Paul tells us to:
1.  Be on our guard against self-centered Christianity.
2. Be firm in our faith.
3.  Be men and women of courage.
4. Trust the Holy Spirit to give us strength.

5.  Focus on serving others by joining a church, supporting the church financially, supporting the pastor and missionaries in their ministries and by cooperating with other churches.

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Terry Dorsett has been a church planter and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. Find all of his books at:
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