Top 10 Reasons People Don’t Tithe - Guest Post by Charles Stone
Tithing is a spiritual discipline many Christians practice. In its simplest form it means giving back to God 10% of what you make. I’ve practiced it for years as a regular part of my giving. I tithe ‘plus’ to my local church and I give to other causes on top of that. However, throughout my 35 years of ministry I’ve seen 10 common reasons that church people give for not tithing. I list them below with a counter point below each.
It’s all mine anyway. Why should I give?
Counter-point (CP): Everything we own is actually God’s (Ps 50.10, Ps 24.1).
I give elsewhere. This is the person who counts his giving to secular causes, his time, or paying for his child’s Christian school tuition as his tithe.
CP: Do causes around the purposes of God get the lion’s share of your giving?
Tithing is not in the New Testament. This is one of the most common.
CP: When Jesus fulfilled the law, He didn’t revise spirituality downward.
God will provide through other people. This person believes that other people will give to support the cause of Christ in their church.
CP: God chose to release His resources through all believers.
My gifts don’t really count. This person thinks that because he can’t give much, his giving really doesn’t matter.
CP: Don’t minimize the size of any gift (recall the story of the poor widow in Mark 12.41-44).
I don’t trust preachers. This is understandable due to the few high profile ministers who misuse God’s money.
CP: If you lead a church, make sure you instill the highest standards of stewardship and accountability.
I only give to projects I like. This is the control freak who only gives to projects he or she can designate funds to. Some people in this category even hold back their giving in their church because they haven’t gotten their way.
CP: Trust your church leadership to wisely manage God’s money.
I have no control over my finances. My husband does. In this case (and it’s almost always a wife in this position) her husband controls the finances and although the wife wants to give, he prohibits it.
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Ministry Killers and How to Defeat Them (Bethany
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Avoiding Pitfalls of Approval Motivated Leadership(Inter-Varsity Press, January 2014), and my
newest book, Brain-Savvy Leadership: the
Science of Significant Ministry (Abingdon, 2015).