As the
New Year starts, we often make New Year’s resolutions. We might resolve to
START doing something good that we have always wanted to do. We might resolve
to STOP a bad habit that we have struggled with for a long time. The point of
New Year’s resolutions is to improve ourselves in the New Year so we are better
than we were in the old one.
The Top
Ten Resolutions People Make Include:
1. Spend more time with family and friends (50% make this resolution)
2. Exercise more
3. Lose weight (66% of people make this resolution)
4. Quit smoking
5. Enjoy life more
6. Quit drinking
7. Get out of debt
8. Learn something new, take a class, go back to school
9. Help others
10.
Get organized
New
Year’s resolutions are good, but most of us fail to keep them. One website said
that the average person keeps the majority of their resolutions for only 21
days. But they will keep one or two resolutions all year and those one or two
become permanent changes in their lives. Resolutions give us the opportunity to
let old things pass away and new things enter into our lives. The Apostle Paul
talks about this in
2
Corinthians 5:17-19
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation; old things have passed away, and look, new things have come. Now everything is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that is, in Christ, God was reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and He has committed the message of reconciliation to us.
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation; old things have passed away, and look, new things have come. Now everything is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that is, in Christ, God was reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and He has committed the message of reconciliation to us.
Verse 17 - Therefore if anyone is in Christ, there is
a new creation; old things have passed away, and look, new things have come.
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When Christians make New Year’s resolutions they have
an advantage over their non-believing friends because Christ helps us
change into a new creation. Actually, in a theological sense, Christians have
already been made new. The sins and mistakes and dumb things we did in the past
have already been washed away by the blood of Christ.
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Though theologically Christians may already be new in
Christ, from a practical perspective, we still have a lot of growing and
changing to do in order to be new. It is important to realize that when an “old
thing” goes away it creates a vacuum in our lives. A new thing must fill that
vacuum or else the old thing will just come right back. We must learn to
replace the negative aspects of our lives with positive things.
Verse 18 - Now everything is from God, who reconciled
us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.
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This verse says everything is from God. In the context
of this passage, it means everything new that replaces the old is
from God. The idea is that Christians are guaranteed God’s help in overcoming
our difficulties and becoming new. We have the Holy Spirit to help us make and
keep our resolutions. But we must pray and ask God for wisdom and strength.
When we pray, we can know that God will hear and respond. God has promised that
every Christian has access to Him through prayer (Romans 5:2). God always
answers our prayers, though sometimes not the way we expected. God also often
responds to the prayers of non-Christians because He is a God of grace and
mercy, He is not obligated to do so.
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If we want to be better people this year than we were
last year, we should spend some time praying and asking God what good things we
should be doing to replace the negative things we have done in the past. If we
pray and ask God for guidance, we should be prepared to listen and respond when
He answers.
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We must also remember that God has already answered
our most important prayer, which was for our own salvation. Because of that, we
are now reconciled with God. Reconcile means to reunite those who are
estranged. It means to remove the enmity between them and change from a
position of hostility to a relationship of friendship. Before we became
Christians, we lived in opposition to God, living our lives however we wanted
to with no regard for God’s plans. We were not in a position of friendship with
God and often worked against His plans for our lives. But once we became
Christians, things began to change in our lives. Our perspectives and our
priorities changed. The way we spent our time, our energy and our resources all
changed. Once we became friends of God, we began to work with Him instead of
against Him.
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Perhaps one of the greatest things that changed in our
lives was that God gave us a ministry of reconciliation. That means that God
calls us to help others become friends of God as well. Just as someone told us
how we could become the friends of God, we should tell others. Along with all
the other resolutions Christians make, we should resolve to share our faith
regularly with others. Due to differences in our personalities and life
situations, we may all do this in different ways, but we should all be sharing
Jesus in some way as part of our New Year’s resolutions.
Verse 19 - that is, in Christ, God was reconciling the
world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and He has
committed the message of reconciliation to us.
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Notice that as God is working to reconcile the world
to Himself, He does not pay attention to the sins of those He is trying to reach.
We may be tempted to only share with people who we think are good enough for
the Gospel. But that is not what God does. God does not put us on a scale and
then decide who is worth reaching. He reaches out with grace and mercy to all
who believe. The most sinful among us can be reconciled to God if we turn to
Him in faith. Maybe 2014 was a bad year for our relationship with God, but 2015
can be our best year yet. But we must not take God’s grace and mercy for
granted. One day all of our chances will be used up and we will stand before
God and give an account. At that moment we will either pass into heaven or be
cast into hell and our chance to make resolutions about change will have
passed. But at this moment, we still have time to ask God to forgive us and
resolve ourselves to follow Him. Will we request that forgiveness? Will we be
resolved to follow Him? Those who are not Christians should resolve that 2015
will be the year of their salvation. Those who are Christians should resolve to
share the Gospel in 2015 with anyone who will listen.
Conclusion:
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Most people make New Year’s resolutions. Christians
have the promise from the Lord for help in fulfilling our resolutions.
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To increase the success rate of our resolutions we
must replace our old habits with new habits that will please God.
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One resolution we should add to our list is to witness
more to those who are lost because God has given each of us the ministry of
reconciliation.
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Terry Dorsett has been a church planter and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. Find all of his books at:
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thanks Dr.Terry, this is wisdom.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to share with others what the Lord is showing to me.
DeleteI was was always told that New Year's resolutions are like crying babies in church. . . . They are not good unless carried out!!!!
ReplyDeleteI guess we should carry out our resolutions then.
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