In yesterday’s post we discussed the importance of churches
being part of a group instead of being lone rangers. We continue that
discussion today. In my role as a denominational leader, I am often contacted
by non-denominational churches going through times of difficulty. They have
heard that I helped other struggling churches and am hopeful that I can help
them too. Because I care deeply about expanding the Kingdom of God regardless
of denominations, I try to do what I can for such churches. But I must admit
that sometimes it is frustrating.
Think about this issue from my perspective. When such churches
were healthy and had something to offer, they did not want to be connected to
my denomination. But now that they are struggling and have little to offer,
they want to join up and receive help. It is much like a person in the
community who does not attend church, but when he or she needs help with the
rent or some marriage counseling or assistance for one of their children, he or
she shows up to a church and expects the church to offer free help for all of his
or her problems. It makes one wonder about the real motivation behind the
request for help. But just as good churches seek to help individuals in crisis,
good denominations try to help churches going through struggles, even when they
are outside the fold. However, that help is often much more limited than if the
church were inside the tribe.
I think it is important for independent churches that have
sought denominational help during times of crisis to remember who helped them once
they are healthy and vibrant again. They should be willing to get involved in
that group and support it so that the denomination can offer assistance to
other churches.
Non-denominational churches that are currently not in a time
of crisis, should consider joining a group now so that when their time of trial
comes, they will already be in place to receive help. That way instead of being
outsiders looking for a handout, they become part of the family and everyone
feels good about helping them. For those non-denominational churches that do
not want to be controlled by a denomination, there are a large number of
denominations that believe in local church control. The Southern Baptist
Convention, of which I am a part, is one of them. Our churches own their own
buildings, select their own pastors, ordain their own leaders, write their own
sermons, and control their own budgets. Converge, another Baptist group, is
also a good option, though much smaller in scope than the SBC. The Evangelical
Free is also a good option for those who prefer a less baptistic expression, as are any number of small denominations across
America. There is no real reason to be non-denominational when so many options
are available that do not require giving up control of one’s church. Do not
wait for the moment of crisis to come, find a group NOW and go through whatever
process is needed to help your church become part of a family of churches so
that when your hour of need comes, it will be natural to ask for help instead
of awkward.
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Terry Dorsett has been a church planter and author in New England for more than 20 years. He is a happy husband, a proud father and adoring grandfather. He is a cancer survivor and believes that God works powerfully through times of suffering. Find all of his books at:
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