Many Christian leaders are alarmed by the statistics for how
few young adults come to church. Though there are many reasons why the next
generation is finding other things to do instead of church, one reason is the
preaching. Some churches think they can attract younger adults by watering down
the sermon. From my observations, watering down the gospel message actually
produces the opposite result because young people believe there is no point in
going to church if nothing the church believes has substance anyway. Other
churches have attempted to force the gospel message on those who attend through
manipulation or guilt based methods. This has not worked either because young
adults do not simply accept what they are told; they want to discover it for
themselves.
Young adults are drawn to passionate preaching that is
relevant to daily life. They do not just want a passionate communicator; they
also need that communicator to connect whatever is being said to real-life
experiences.
Many churches have discovered several keys to relevant,
passionate preaching. One of those keys is to base the sermon on a single
passage of Scripture. Young adults expect something in a sermon other than the
pastor’s opinion or some pop psychology thinly disguised as a sermon. Therefore,
the entire lesson should be wrapped around a single Scripture passage. Though
we sometimes think that using a large number of additional verses helps prove
our point that often just confuses those who are trying to follow our train of
thought. This is especially true if the young adults we are trying to reach do
not have a strong church background. Young people without a strong church
background do not know all the Bible stories or where the books of the Bible
can be found. Jumping around from passage to passage is very confusing to them.
Furthermore, if refer to biblical stories as illustrations, we are going to
have to take the time to tell that story to the audience. We simply cannot
assume they already know it. Since we can only hold the attention of our
listeners for a certain amount of time, we have to choose carefully how many of
those stories we might tell in one sermon. The same would be true about using
various words that may convey significant meaning to a churchgoing audience but
that have no meaning whatsoever to a non-churched listener. If we want to use
words such as grace, trinity, mercy, redemption, or born again, they will have
to be defined. Otherwise a younger audience may have no idea what we are talking
about.
In addition to using Scripture effectively, be prepared to
discuss deep and complex issues with relevant application. If young adults have
made the effort to come church, they want to wrestle with the tough questions
about life and discover deep answers to life’s perplexing problems. They want
to know why evil exists and why there is suffering in the world. They want to
know why God lets bad things happen to good people if God really is so
powerful. Based on extensive research, Lifeway Christian Resources has
discovered that “young adults are allowing these questions to change the way
they shop, educate themselves, read, and even listen to music.” Lifeway
concludes, “It’s a mystery to many young adults, both inside and outside of
church life, why more Christians don’t take their responsibilities [about such
issues] more seriously.” Effective pastors, teachers, and Christian
leaders spend time studying the deep issues and are prepared to incorporate
them into their sermons because the next generation wrestles with these issues
on a regular basis.
As the sermon draws to a close, it is important to challenge
young listeners to consider how the truth of the Scriptures just taught can be
applied to their daily lives. Though it is unlikely that they will make any
spiritual commitment instantly, they should be challenged to think deeply for a
period of time and then act on their reflective conclusion at some later point.
This is in no way a suggestion that we should no longer give invitations or
offer people an opportunity to trust Christ; it is simply a realization that the
next generation is going to need more time than may be allotted in a typical
closing song of a church service. Inviting them to a prayer room to talk with
someone further about the implications of the sermon or giving them an email
address or phone number they can text with questions about the sermon may be
more effective. Young adults need to be challenged to reflectively contemplate
biblical truth and make a commitment to that truth, but only after they have
come to a well-considered conclusion. In my own ministry, I often tell students
in advance of certain dates when we will be having a baptism or some other
spiritual milestone and ask them to come see me before that date if they are
ready to make some type of spiritual commitment. That allows them time to
consider making a spiritual decision but does not force them to decide without
having thought it through completely. When we get frustrated with how long it
takes for young adults to move to a place of commitment, we must remind
ourselves of that wonderful biblical truth that says no one comes to the Father
unless the Spirit draws him or her. Let us teach and preach the Word, filled
with His Spirit, and patiently await the Father to draw the next generation to
Himself.
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Adapted from Dr. Dorsett’s book, Mission
Possible: Reaching the Next Generation through the Small Church, published
by CrossBooks, a division of Lifeway Christian Resources.
The paradigm used in most churches fosters one way communication which does little to engender community or exchange of ideas; both of which are highly valued by the Next Generation. It's further complicated when the 'talk' doesn't result in appropriate mission.
ReplyDeleteThanks brother. And yes, far too much preaching is "talking at" instead of "talking with"
DeleteTerry, I believe that you are on track here. The next gen doesn't likely know Bible stories or Bible-speak and it helps to stick to one passage in the context of the sermon topic.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mark. "Bible-speak" might be the bane of modern preaching.
DeleteTerry, as a baby boomer who is approaching his 6th decade of life all too quickly, I understand that you are right on spot, and also nothing has changed with this next generation. They really are no different. I and many of my generation struggled with, and still struggle with, these questions of good and evil, and of substance and meaning.
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